Personality Reports

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Part1. Agreeableness : Taking care of others or Taking care of yourself.

 

You are best described as:  USUALLY TAKING CARE OF YOURSELF 

Words that describe you:

Perceptive,Realistic, Demanding, Down-to-Earth,

Hardnosed, Judgmental, Pragmatic, Skeptical 
  
A General Description of How You Interact with Others
You are clearly a compassionate person;

you believe that you should do unto others as you would have them do unto you, and you know that friends help their friends.

But with you compassion is just one side of the coin;

the other being a side that also expects others to hold up their end of the bargain.

So you help others but it is with the expectation that others don't take advantage of you or

try to put one over on you. In short, you expect others to treat you as you treat them.

 

And for those people who do ask for help when they should have taken responsibility for themselves?

This is the time when your more hard-edged side comes out.

You are skeptical of people when they expect others to bail them out of trouble;

if they got themselves into the bind, they should work their way out of the trouble. If it's an emergency, or if it's a friend who has been there for you when you have had hard times, you are there in a quick minute.

But you are a discerning person and to you there is a big difference between an emergency and a self-inflicted wound.

You just look at the facts:

how the situation developed, how serious the situation, and how they can or cannot get through things on their own.

The history you have with the person and with similar situations will inform you whether this is or is not a time for you to get involved.

You also have some limits when it comes to being with people.

Sure some people need to be with others all the time and seem to get recharged by helping out most anyone else.

But that's not you. You know that you do best if you spend a fair amount of time on your own.

Not that you are a loner, just that time spent by yourself is not wasted at all with you.

You've come to understand that if you don't take good care of yourself, eventually you'll be not good to anyone, including yourself or others.

So your compassion is tempered by realism.

Your sympathy for people in trouble is balanced by a critical evaluation of how they got themselves to the place they are. And you've learned to take good care of yourself, so you have something to give to your friends or others truly in need.

 

Part2. Openess : Curious or Contented.

 

On the Openness Dimension you are: SOMETIMES CURIOUS, SOMETIMES CONTENT 

Words that describe you:
Accepting, Flexible, Educated, Self-aware, Middle-of-the-road,
Proper, Distinctive, Indecisive, Adaptable 
 
A General Description of How You Approach New Information and Experiences
Like someone who can sleep comfortably on either side of the bed, you are equally at home with ideas and beliefs that you have held for a long time and with new ways of thinking and believing that grow out of your intellectual curiosity.

Your sense of who you are and what your place is in the world around you rests on values and principles that are the solid ground you walk upon.

You've tested them, they work for you, and much of the time you are content to trust them, that is, until some provocative new idea slips in from a conversation, book or some flight of your active imagination. "Hmmmm. What's this. Never thought of it before." And off you go, exploring.

Since you love to learn, you've always been teachable;

you absorb new information, which means you are well-educated in things that matter to you. Sometimes your intellectual exploring will lead you back to where you started; the "next new thing" proves too shallow or impractical to you.

But once in a while a new idea or belief will dislodge you from the ground you've stood upon; it is so compelling and persuasive that you step away from the tried-and-true and embrace this notion that is brand new to you.

Because you hold both solid beliefs and are open to new ideas, you are accepting of other people and other ways of thinking and believing.

You are flexible enough to listen to something new and different, or something outside of your comfort zone;

if it works for you, you'll take it in, and if not, you'll let it go.

In this sense, you know who you are: you are neither closed-minded nor wildly open-minded, but walk somewhere near the middle of the intellectual road.

 

Part3. Emotinal Stability : Steady ot Responsive

 

On Emotional Stability you are: SOMETIMES STEADY, SOMETIMES RESPONSIVE 

Words that describe you:
Adaptable, Engaged, Able to Cope, Passionate,
Perceptive, Flexible, Receptive, Aware, Avid 
 
A General Description of Your Reactivity
In some ways, you've got the best of emotional worlds.

When emotions rise up from inside you or are brought forth from a conversation by a friend, you know how to engage them.

You deal with sadness, fear, joy, anger - whatever comes up - in ways that are perceptive and flexible.

You can adapt to whatever level of emotion is appropriate to the moment.

At other times, you are able to cope with your emotions in a more reserved manner.

Because you are aware of what does and does not make emotional sense in a particular situation, you will decide when it is an appropriate time to express your emotions and when it would be best to keep them to yourself.

All of this gives you a rich emotional life.

You are free to express your passions about certain subjects with appropriate people.

But you are also emotionally adaptable;

if the conversation needs to be more cerebral, you'll keep it "in your head" and talk calmly through whatever issue is on the table.

This emotional awareness serves you well.

You seldom get in over your head, either by opening up to the wrong person or by triggering in someone else's emotions they may not be able to deal with.

 

Part4. Conscientiousness : Focused ot Flexible

 

Your approach toward your obligations is: FLEXIBLE 

Words that describe you:
Spontaneous, Intuitive, Perceptive, Natural,
Somewhat Disorganized, Unpredictable At Times 
 
A General Description of How You Interact with Others
When there's a job to be done, like most people you want to know what the goal is and when it's to be completed.

For you, that's a start. Next you want to know what the plan is to get to the goal.

So you lay out a plan, or at least the major points of a plan:

"Organize the kitchen sometime this spring" or "Get the project at work done as soon as possible."

You don't need an in-depth specification of every little detail; in fact you prefer not to work that way. You lay out your goals, develop a general plan, and then you get things done.

You believe in intuition as well as organization.

As such, you trust impulses as much as strategies and you value spontaneity as much as you do efficiency.

In a word, you like to keep it flexible.

When you set out to accomplish a task, you prefer to have some room to maneuver.

Like an artist, you find that the best way to reach a goal is not always in a straight line.

Some of the most productive times for you are the unplanned moments of inspiration and creativity that just come to you. While you do keep to a general plan, those times of pure vision and originality are what really drive you.

Some of the people who rely completely on an organized approach to getting things done may be surprised at your efficiency.

But there is a definite method to your approach.

With a creative flair that others may not have anticipated, the original plan gets met and there are often a few extra accomplishments along the way.

Your comfort zone starts with a task and a plan but it also requires the freedom to be able to go with your instincts and impulses so that you can not just accomplish the task, you also have the option to explore something brand new along the way.

 

Part5. Extraversion : Outgoing or Reserved

 

When it comes to Extraversion you are: SOMETIMES OUTGOING, SOMETIMES RESERVED 

Words that describe you:
Moderate, Amiable, Laid-back, Temperate, Relaxed,
Poised, Civil, Uncommitted, Pleasant 
 
A General Description of How You Interact with Others
Lucky you! You enjoy your own company as much as you enjoy the company of others.

You are a great conversationalist and thrive in the wonderful kinds of connections you know how to have with your family and friends.

You also equally enjoy your own company, whether sitting in a favorite chair with your book and soft music playing or meandering in the woods by yourself.

You like coming home to your family or your roommate;

but if no one is home, you find quiet, solitary time to be just as pleasurable. What a great combination to enjoy being outgoing and to be just as comfortable being reserved. Lucky you!!

Because you are so amiable and relaxed, you are comfortable with almost any group of family or friends.

Whether they are pumped up and lively or calm and subdued, you remain at ease.

If someone needs to take over the conversation, you are comfortable taking the lead; you can also lay back and let someone else be in charge.

If the conversation gets rowdy, your moderate demeanor will often draw it down to a more temperate level. If someone in the group loses their cool, you will most likely maintain your poise, and if they get nasty you know how to keep a civil tongue.

You may find yourself out of balance on occasion.

If you're alone too much, you may need to get in touch with someone.

 If you spend too much time with your family and friends, you may need to sneak off for a day by yourself, to putter and read and clear your head of the noise of too much conversation.

When you're at your best, you live with a rhythm of time with others, time alone, time with others, time alone.

It's a satisfying, comfortable balance. Lucky you!

 

 

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This is the check lists about things that I want my partner has and has not..

: the catch is... the concepts of all itmes listed below could vary from a person to a person.

Isn't that all the reason why we have  conflicts in our lives after all?  ^^

I surely enjoyed myself while I was checking this list, though.

 

Must Have

- Intellect...  :  I must have a partner who is bright and can share my understanding of the world as well as enjoy discussing important issues.
- Sense of Humor...  :  I must have someone who is sharp and can enjoy the humorous side of life.
- Spirituality...  :   I must have someone with a similar deep commitment to spirituality, who shares my beliefs.
- Family Life...  :   I must have a partner who is committed to marriage, home, and family.
- Emotionally Healthy...  :   I must have a partner who is emotionally healthy, and able to share a stable life with someone else.
- Tolerant... :   I must have a partner who is able to hear and appreciate divergent viewpoints.
- Emotionally Generous... :   I must have a partner who enjoys people and is generous with his or her compassion, attention, sympathies and love.
- Verbal Intimacy...  :   I must know that my partner is sharing their deepest emotional thoughts and desires.
- Strong Character...  :   I must have a partner who is honest and strong enough to do the right thing.
- Chemistry...  :  I must feel deeply in love with and attracted to my partner.

 

Can't Stand

- Foul Mouthed...  :   I can't stand someone who swears or uses inappropriate language or humor.
- Childishness...  :   I can't stand someone who is not emotionally mature.
- Undependable...  :   I can't stand someone who fails to come through and is unreliable.
- Drugs...  :   I can't stand someone who uses illegal recreational drugs.
- Depressed...  :   I can't stand someone who is constantly unhappy about their life.

- Mean Spirited...  :   I can't stand someone who has a devious nature and is mean to others.
- Denial...  :   I can't stand someone who is unable to accept blame or see fault in their own actions.
- Hypochondriac...  :   I can't stand someone who has a general disposition of sickness and is constantly treating the symptoms of their supposed illness.
- Sexually Obsessed...  :   I can't stand someone who is sexually obsessive.
- Arrogant...  :   I can't stand someone who is obnoxiously cocky.