Advice..

It would be better if you said my attitude was the problem.

You see, I can't help being who I am. I do not want to disguise myself.

   

I shall try to be more accepting and attending,
but it's simply not possible for me to be less confident nor independent.
Those are my essentials. I want to be like that. I chose to.

   

So...
If I follow your advice,
what I can do for the situation would be only
to accept the consequences of my choice and live with them...